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Monday, 22 September 2025

Pumpkins, Pumpkins, Everywhere!

 I seem to be fixated with pumpkins at the moment! I cannot get enough of them!! I really enjoyed drawing them in my last post, so I decided to create a dedicated book just for pumpkins!

I adore working with textures so chose to use wool/felt and created an appliqué design to cover my book.




The finished design as my pumpkin book cover.


I wanted this book to be filled with what ever medium at the time of drawing/creating I chose to use.  this could be, collage, water paints, acrylic paints, stitch, seriously anything! I really love experimenting so I thought this book would be great for that.

Here is what I have done so far...









Do you have a favourite from what I have created so far? Do you love using a specific medium, and want me to try it? 

I have created something else! Something Halloween fitting, every year I create Christmas ornament/s for my daughter Christmas tree, which I will share in an upcoming post.  But for Halloween this is the first one I have created for my daughter, as she loves Halloween.

My daughter really likes the retro Halloween designs, after doing a little exploring online I created this drawing.  My daughter loved it so I decided to created it in appliqué for her table.


But I got side tracked as she also wanted a pumpkin keyring!



I changed the design slightly when I appliquéd it, turned out really cute and my daughter loves it, it's on her table. Of course as I added the year this also is now expected every year too!


Have you done any Halloween stitching? I did start a Blue Ribbon design,  Behind The Gate, it's going slower than expected as I keep getting side tracked with other things.  Looks like it's going to be for next year now. I love how this design is interactive.





Are you stitching anything for Halloween?

Until next time...

Sunday, 14 September 2025

Where do my ideas come from?

I get asked this all the time so I thought I would explain my process of gathering ideas.  Everything around me influences, shape, colour, nature, buildings, patterns, textures and much more.

I like draw, I am not an artist, I draw in my own style, it helps me to process what I have seen or recalled from memory or in most cases a mash made up imaginary world.  Mostly doodling as this is my way of generating little gems that I want to develop further. 

As Halloween season is fast approaching I started with pumpkins! 


This is a mixture of drawings and painting on other paper then cut and stuck in this book, I guess a kind of collage. This was the finished page.


I should mention this book, I decided to start this book, the pumpkins were my first doodle.  This book I hope to use regularly as a way of offloading ideas and things I just want to draw.  Being autistic my head never switches off, I am constantly thinking about things.  

The next page I decided to create leaves, all aspects of nature fascinate me, again a kind of collage. I like to add pattern to shapes to make them more interesting.


At the moment I am happy using water coloured paint and watercolour pencils, I may switch to just fine liner or other mediums.  I am just going with what I feel at the time.

This next one 'Houses' literally took me just over an hour! I wanted a quick result, not searching for realism.  I was exploring colour, shapes and placement.


Back to nature next with 'Fungi and Mushrooms', I chose to add the name of what I wanted to draw to each page as it just made sense to me to do that. I really liked creating this page as it reminded me of all the lovely mushrooms and fungi I have stitched.












Sticking with nature I decided a plants page was needed! I love house plants, having nature so near makes me happy. I do not have an outside space sadly, so I bring plants to me!







The next page I created was trees, in a fun shape gathering way! Thats the thing with me, I just create things I like so if it means odd shaped trees, it's that! 



Today I wasn't feeling colour at all so created a black and white then a monochrome page.  Not sure if you all know but without my Irlens tinted glasses I only see monochrome, no colour at all.  The specialist tint gives me colour and it's actually really amazing however some days I find it too vibrant and return to my monochrome world.




My Irlens tinted glasses, each tint is made up of a combination of colours.


I find drawing a great way to generate loads of ideas for designs I may want to hand embroider. Developing my drawings further helps me to process what I will create with embroidery, what colours to choose and how I will do it if it is 3 dimensional. 

Do you enjoy drawing?

Until next time...

Friday, 5 September 2025

Where is the Pumpkin Patch?

 

Available HERE

Its a FREE instant download.

Enjoy and happy stitching, I hope you like it :)

Thursday, 4 September 2025

Someone mention Halloween?

 Halloween will soon be here....

As you know I am dabbling in creating cross stitch charts, thought I would create a FREE

Halloween cross stitch design people could stitch.

If you would rather download this its available HERE


There is a reason why I chose pumpkin faces, I have prosopagnosia (facial blindness).  

For me this basically means that I do not recognise human faces, combine this with me

being autistic, facial expressions become highly frustrating and confusing. I can see 

pumpkin faces!


Pumpkin faces are fun! 

Happy stitching.



Monday, 1 September 2025

A Glimpse Into My Life With Autism

 Living, masking, and finally being seen, my journey with autism.

“This is me, living with autism.”
                         "Sharing my story to be heard and to help others feel less alone".


Childhood & Early School Years

There’s something that literally rules my life, something that never leaves me, something that frustrates me 24/7 and, on occasions, makes me feel unheard and invisible. It’s also something I rarely talk about. What am I talking about? Autism.

All my life I have known there was something different about me. I just didn’t do what other children did. I was born in the 70s and back then autism was unheard of, especially where I lived. My dad served in the British Army and we lived in Germany, where I spent 27 years of my life, and loved every minute. But as a child, I was seen simply as the quiet one who didn’t play with others. I liked being by myself.

Sometimes I laughed loudly, but not with others, just on my own. It often happened when teachers put me on the spot or made me work in groups. That laughing was my way of being heard. When I expressed verbally that I was unhappy or struggling, no one listened. But loud laughter got me noticed. It usually meant I was sent out of class to the quiet room, where extra reading sessions took place. That suited me perfectly: it was calm, quiet, and I could settle.

Looking back, no one tried to understand me. I was left to my own devices throughout school. I hated it. I loved drawing and art, working with my hands, but no one wanted to hear that. School became a place where I had no voice, was forced into things that made me uncomfortable, and so I resented every minute. It wasn’t until later in life that I realised how much of my schooling I had lost.

Struggles in Adulthood

Employment was difficult. I found things harder to pick up, so I learned to survive by following others, copying, mimicking, and masking to fit in. I laughed when others laughed, even though I didn’t really understand humour or sarcasm. Mimicking became my secret weapon, and it served me well for years.

But beneath the surface, I was often overwhelmed, tearful, and shouting out of sheer frustration. I felt so alone, like I was speaking another language no one understood. I found it especially hard to see people breaking rules or doing things I saw as wrong, because I couldn’t understand why others did what I would never do. My family always said they knew I was different but brushed it off as just being “me.” It didn’t help.

To self-regulate, I turned to noise: shouting and slamming doors. The vibrations and the bang grounded me, pulling me back to earth when my emotions took me sky-high.

The Road to Diagnosis

It wasn’t until my late 40s, when I went to university, that tutors repeatedly suggested I should be tested for autism. I’d heard of autism, of course, but never in the context of myself. I started reading about it, and slowly the pieces began to fit. Maybe this was the answer I had been searching for all my life?

The road to diagnosis was long, with multiple visits to a psychologist. Early on, they told me they already knew I was autistic, but they had to go deeper to make it official. When I finally received my diagnosis, I cried. Not from sadness, but from relief. For the first time, someone had listened. Someone saw me, recognised I was different, and gave it a name: autism.

Finding a Mentor & Self-Discovery

To be honest, the diagnosis hasn’t really helped me much. If anything, it’s been confusing. Yes, I finally have the answer to why I am the way I am, but now I’ve been left to live with it, with no guidance or support. That is until I found the most amazing mentor who has opened my eyes to understanding myself and autism.

It’s taken over five years of mentor support so far to let me see the real me. I masked a lot, and it wore me out. These days, I don’t mask at all, I am me. Sometimes, I don’t like me, as I can’t deal with everyday situations. Having facial blindness puts me at a disadvantage when it comes to reading people’s faces. I don’t understand any facial expressions apart from happy and sad. Daily living is a challenge. But thanks to my mentor, I’m slowly learning that being me is enough. I don’t have to copy, pretend, or hide anymore.

Thriving at University

And although I disliked school, university was a completely different experience. I thrived there because I wanted to be there. It felt like I was finally catching up from all the younger school years where I had been so lost. I soaked up learning like a sponge. The structure, the routine, and the deadlines gave me focus, and university gave me the tools to begin understanding myself. For the first time, I truly enjoyed learning.

Reflections & Hope

So here I am, autism is part of me. It rules my life in ways I can’t escape, but it also explains so much of who I am. This is only a glimpse of my life, but enough to see how autism runs through it. Maybe that’s why I rarely talk about it, because for so long no one listened. But here, with these words, I can be heard. Autism is not all of me, but it’s a big part of me. And if sharing this makes even one person feel less unheard, then it was worth writing. Most of all, I want people to know that with the right support, with someone who believes in you, there is hope. Even after decades of masking and feeling invisible, I am finally starting to see myself, and that feels like a kind of freedom. If you are reading this and recognise parts of your own story, know that you are not alone, and your voice deserves to be heard too.

Creativity

I wanted to share some of my creativity HERE is where you can read about it. 

Until the next time...


Saturday, 23 August 2025

I have been thinking

Hello again,

I find myself thinking a lot these days, perhaps too much time on my hands! But one thought keeps returning: the one thing I wish I’d had throughout my education journey.

It may seem small to some, but for me it feels huge. Being autistic, I often need validation to feel that I am good enough in what I do, especially with the thing I love most, hand embroidery. This isn’t about regret or complaining about what I didn’t have. It’s about processing the gap between what I expected, and what I actually received.

During my textile degree, I longed to use hand embroidery more. Most projects were only five weeks long, leaving little space to explore it deeply. Only my final project, three months long, allowed me to really stitch in the way I wanted. Then covid arrived, and lockdowns stripped away many of the opportunities I had hoped for. I was especially looking forward to the natural dye elements, dreaming of dyeing my own embroidery threads to stitch with. Instead, pre-dyed fabrics were posted to me, and the embroidery we were shown was limited to basic stitches, treated only as embellishment. Despite making clear at interview how passionate I was about hand embroidery, I felt that side of me was never really nurtured.

Yes, I graduated with a First Class with Honours in Textiles, and I am proud of that. But it wasn’t in hand embroidery. I still feel like something is missing and that I am an imposter. What I crave is not “just another certificate.” It’s something I can hold in my hands, see, and touch, a tangible reminder that I am a skilled hand embroiderer.

Yes, I continued to stitch during my MA, but again I felt the target was slightly missed. The focus was more on facilitating than on discovering who I was as a hand embroiderer. Facilitating is valuable, of course, but at that stage I longed to explore my own voice and direction, not simply prepare to hand it over to others.

That said, I gained so much from my time at university. Attending in the first place was something I never thought I was capable of, and graduating, not once but twice,  gave me confidence I didn’t know I had. It pushed me to break through barriers I once thought impossible.

But where is all of this leading? As I’ve mentioned before, the one place I dream of studying is the Royal School of Needlework. If it were possible, I would wholeheartedly apply and even fund another degree myself. Sadly, with the school being based in Hampton Court Palace, a Grade I listed building,  it simply isn’t accessible for me, and that door remains closed.

So what else is there? Where else can I find the validation I need? For me, City & Guilds feels like the right step. I’ve recently applied for a bursary, and I truly believe this route could empower me. Holding an accredited qualification would not only help me believe in myself, but also give me the authority to share embroidery with others, knowing I have the proper foundation to do so.

My family say I don’t need that piece of paper, that I’m already good enough. But for me, it means more than paper. It’s validation, proof, and a symbol of credibility. Hand embroidery is part of my daily life, and having a qualification in it would give me the confidence not only to honour my own ability, but also to share the joy and wellbeing it brings with others.

So no, this isn’t about collecting certificates. It’s about something much deeper: having visible proof that I am good enough, and a positive reminder that will help me step forward with confidence to inspire others through the art form I love.

If you have time, I pose these questions, what is your view?

  • “Have you ever felt the need for validation in your own creative journey?”

  • “What’s the one thing that helps you feel ‘good enough’ in what you do?”

  • “How has embroidery or another craft helped you grow in confidence?”

  • “What does hand embroidery (or your craft) give you that nothing else does?”

  • “Do you believe we ever stop needing validation, no matter our age or stage?”

  • “What gives you a sense of purpose in your creative life?”

    Thank you for popping by

    Until the next time...

Saturday, 16 August 2025

Now what??

 I have been really quiet, this is because I am really out of sorts.  What am I trying to say? 

I feel..... odd.  

Really odd.

Why you ask?

I will try to explain, this came in the post...


Now you would of course think I am happy, yes of course! I now hold a BA (Hons) First Class degree in Textiles and now a Master of Arts in Arts Practice (Arts, Health and Wellbeing).  I am entitled to write my name like this!! 

Jacqueline Morris, BA (First class Hons), MA

Ok, so going back to the odd feeling, I started this journey a long time ago, in fact I posted it here, 16 March 2017!! The day I found out I got accepted into university!

I have been non stop studying since then, and you would think that after all that time I would welcome a break? hmmm

I loved the learning, no I was a sponge and craved the learning, I miss the learning, I miss all the project work and creating.  Sure I am now being creative under my own steam but I really miss the structure and freedom within that structure and actually loved the deadlines! What am I saying? I guess I don't really want to stop studying!

Am I crazy?

Do you know I had this dream way back when I got into university to become Dr Jacquie! Seriously, I know I need a PhD, that would give me the DR.  Why am I not applying to do this? It's the end, there is no more levels after this, and that to be honest is scary as I enjoy the studying process.  I am aware that studying for a PhD can take up to 8 years, this actually makes me jump for joy! But then my bubble bursts as it's the highest qualification, I can't go any further.  It was brought to my attention that I could go study another BA if I wanted to! But this is challenging as my heart lies in hand embroidery and there are no courses solely for this.  Oh yes, the RSA (Royal school of needlework) does a BA degree but I cannot attend there, there premisses is in a Grade 1 listed building, well palace! and has no disability access to the floors the degree is taught on.  

So I am feeling odd with no clear direction on what to do.  

I feel I should, rather it's what people want me to do,  take time out, breathe and relax from studying.

hmmmm

I am sad, I am filled with sadness, I want to pick up my embroidery, but I am sad.  Maybe I should just roll with this feeling as a kind of grief for the loss of the learning?

until next time....

Saturday, 19 July 2025

New Challenge - miniatures

 I mentioned in my last post that I was creating miniature house plants, I am really enjoying this process and wanted to share it with you all.


So far I have created a Yucca, spider plant, rubber plant and Chinese money plant.










I bought a wooden display unit, other half painted it for me as it was raw wood, and I plan on filling it with my miniature house plant creations. The green pots are some I had a go at creating with air drying clay then painted, they are very quirky. There are more paper plant creations on the bottom row.





I love being creative, I decided to paint some house plants next on postcards.



I have been really inspired by tiny tiny paper house plants, and actively creating these too, mostly for me to understand construction. They are fun to construct. The plant stand is approx 7cm high.



Until my next update, keep smiling 😊


Tuesday, 8 July 2025

Its July and I have had my head in the clouds

Hello again, 

I have been having a little identity crisis.  I will try to explain:


As you all know I returned to higher education as a mature student and gained a First Class with honours Textiles Degree and a Masters.  I have been in education a long time and to be honest I am finding it really hard to readjust without having the reliable routine.  

What not many of you are aware of is that I have a diagnosis of Autism amongst other learning difficulties.  Returning to higher education was a massive challenge and at times I did feel like I couldn't do it, but persevered. My autism affects me in multiple ways, thankfully throughout all my of higher education I have had an amazing mentor who helped me though it as well as helping me to understand myself.  My main difficulties surround social contact, social interactions and conversation amongst other issues.  I threw myself into the deep end when I applied to university, and to be honest I still cannot believe that I actually went! And got a degree!! Having a reliable routine helped me to have a sense of order in my life, it's only now without it I can see I am not coping as well.  As this title of this post highlights, it's July and I have had my head in the clouds, literally have no idea where the time has gone.  That's another thing, I have no concept of time, I arrive and go everywhere really early as I don't want to be late.  

And what have I been doing? Tried to get back into my cross stitch and embroidery, but I got too overwhelmed with the choices I have and ended up doing none. In fact I ended up seeing my embroidery as an outlet that overwhelms me rather than something that relaxes me.  This went on for what seemed ages, I love to create 3D hand embroidery as it really challenges me.  So I made a bug, it didn't turn out how I expected at all but the process drawing, designing then stitching and making gave me a purpose again and I really enjoyed it.  This is him, I called him Boris, that in itself isn't odd from me, see I call everything Boris! Boris has a purpose too, doubles as a pin cushion, pins can be stuck in his spots.




 

 I then wanted to do something fun as I thought Boris was a little too serious, a sea inspired pin cushion.


I hear you asking, what's with the pin cushions? Why pin cushions? Interesting question, the answer is two fold, I design and stitch things to give myself purpose and I need what ever I create to have a purpose too.  

Now as I write this I am embarking on a major project, one that has given me purpose.  I am designing and stitching miniature house plants.  Sounds odd I know, but I need to feel challenged and this is really filling this need.

Here is where I am:







And currently embroidering a miniature spender plant, photos to follow.  

I will find my path, just may take a little longer that expected, as long as I enjoy what I am doing and feel challenged, that's really all that matters I think. In the mean time I will enjoy buying plants, I love nature, plants make me feel happy.



My cheese plant is rather large now (sorry about the dark photo)


It's darker than it should be within our home, the windows have a tint on them, bright UV light affects my eyes and by dulling the light I also find this more calming.  You can see through the open window the difference the tint makes and peeking through there is a lovely sky.



I am going back to my spider plant now, but wanted to leave you all with one last photo(s), me relaxing with a cat face mask, it appears I cannot get this right either! Very challenging, I put it on the wrong side! I did turn it over, not that it made much of a difference.  It was really nice on my face as I kept it in the fridge, cold, cucumber and aloe, very nice.



















Until next time......